Sabar goes a long way. Not necessarily refraining from anger. But from other ranges of emotions such as disgust, sadness or even joy. Sabar tames the heart to just hang in there a minute and let the events unfold properly. It stops you from making premature decisions that may or may not work in your favour.
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More than meets the eye
An experienced photographer would probably have a lot to say about this photo. I always appreciate expert opinion. They are experts because they know more. I took this photo on a bright, sunny evening. It looks dark because it is the reflection of the trees on the river surface. Looking at it closely, you could see the ripples of the water. The image is flipped. I had to wait for a few joggers to pass me by before I whipped out my phone and captured this scenery.
It is normal to perceive something as it is. It takes slightly more effort to understand what is happening underneath. Dealing with human behaviour and emotion is notably tough. We can never be sure of what another person means, despite how literal they wish to portray themselves. There is always another layer within them that they are not comfortable showing the world. Yet, we still make an effort to connect because that is what being human is all about. We learn how to navigate the different personas and difficult conversations. With time, we get better at our soft skills. This set of skills is not limited to communication. It entails emotional intelligence, creativity in decision-making, and body language. I believe there is more to learn as we create a better version of ourselves.
The Grey Area
Sometimes it is not as simple as labelling stuffΒ as being Black or White. At times , it just stays in between. In the middle, and have no idea where to belong.



