If it has come to a point where it becomes a burden and a nuisance for the husband untuk memuliakan isteri di depan mata anak-anak, why not lepaskan sahaja?
There is such thing called an amicable divorce.
Status
Home and away
A home is a home only if you treat it like one. Otherwise, it is just another place to sleep, shower, and eat.
Similarly, family is family only if you start treating them like one. Otherwise, the spouse is just another roommate that you dine with every day. Children are just little human beings that you have to feed and bathe.
A Hi or Bye is hard to come by. What more, with stories of everyday life.
After some time, everyone is just tired of making an effort.
Hence, amicable separation and co-parenting would probably be the best way to go.
A-phone
My daughter is fine. She is not bored. She can survive without having her mobile phone at her grandmother’s house. Stop imposing your own boredom and lack of enthusiasm to connect with other people on her.
Thank you.
7 July
Al-Fatihah to my mother, Seniah binti Omar – whose love and sacrifices have been taken for granted by the people around her.
Reminiscing back on what she had to go through as a newlywed, a wife and a mother with no asset in her name nor an income – she could have lived better. But she persevered. As kids back then, all we could do was watch because we had no idea how we could have helped.
Perhaps death was the best escape.
Although she succumbed to her illness due to post-COVID complications, I wished other people had taken her place. Not her. She went too soon.
My word for 2024
Last year my word was CONNECT.
I ended up disconnecting myself from Facebook.
This year I am going with ‘Participate’. It could either mean I am going to every gathering or event that I am invited to or being the hermit that I am.
Minci Moss 