My sister purchased my gold bar for her kid’s education fund

My younger sister wanted to buy a gold bar. To be specific, my 5gm mini gold bar. I offered to order another one for her and wait for her parcel but she wanted it like – ASAP. So I sold it to her based on the market price and got minimal ‘untung’ from the selling-buying agreement between siblings.

I also sold her one of those cute 1gm sim-card-sized gold bars for RM350. I gave her the least favourable design per her standards so that she wouldn’t feel ‘sayang’ to sell it one day. My late mum loved gold but more towards jewellery. Back then, gold was like RM60/g and now, nearly 20 years later it is roughly RM334/g. My sister sold one of mum’s necklaces for our younger brother’s wedding last year and the amount they received was so many times more than how much mom initially bought back then. So, gold is definitely something you want to sit on long term.

My sister has a diverse savings portfolio. Her main aim is to save up enough for her children’s education fund. Nowadays there’s a lot of talk going around education quota in secondary school. There is plenty of government assistance for those in the B40 group as opposed to those earning an income qualifying them for the M40 and T20 groups. So much so that some people from the latter groups, including myself are expressing disdain over the discrimination one faces when they manage to climb up the social ladder.

Kadang2 macam – what is the point of getting an education and a good job with a decent income – only to find that you are not worthy of the same chances in life. Eventhough I am a T20, unlike the T20s in the tiers of individuals like CTDK, Dato Aliff Syukri and all – we don’t send our children to private schools. I still send my kids to public schools. Even so, I would still want an opportunity for my kids to thrive in their studies in centres of educational excellence like SBP and MRSM. Simply because we know these are affordable yet competitive places to study. But society is somehow making suggestions that all M40 and T20s should send their children to private schools of which all of them – cost like a bomb. Some have teaching curriculums that we parents are just not affiliated with. I suppose what the M40 and T20 want is also the chance for their kids to study in places like SBP and MRSM which can assist them to greater heights.

I am not saying that we should revoke the B40 privileges because they do need this extra assistance. After all, quotas helped me back then as a Bumiputera child raised in an M40 threshold.

It’s just that shouldn’t the educational ministry think of a plan to improve the system – so much so that even non-MRSM or SBP schools are equally top-tiered to produce quality students in preparation for life. We want public high schools to be prestigious and free from social problems like delinquency, bullying and substance abuse so that parents do not have concerns when their kids are funnelled to these feeder schools. We want an education system akin to Finland where every child could thrive despite their social background.

Getting a hair do

Alia Butik Kecantikan Muslimah : 15 jalan inang 2 Taman paya rumput, Paya rumput utama, 76450, Melaka

I went to one particular salon twice last year to cut my hair but they were closed. I was very disappointed back then because the salon was supposed to open at 10am but they decided to open at noon on that day. I thought it was unprofessional.

Recently I discovered a new hair salon that caters for ladies only. It is at Paya Rumput, Cheng which is less than 10km from where I live although traffic can be horrendous on weekends. It was one of those impulsive actions that had to be done on a Sunday. I went to the salon after I completed my shift at a nearby clinic attending babies with neonatal jaundice.

I requested a cut + hair & scalp treatment at the salon. Initially, my hair was long until just after the lower border of my scapula. I had it chopped off to shoulder length. Then I continued with the treatment of my hair and scalp. I was done just after 2 hours. I paid a total of RM 285.00 for a service well received. I look forward to having my hair treatment done there next month.

So far I haven’t found a hair spa in Melaka where they just massage your head and shoulders and have those aesthetic gadgets that run water to your hair. Perhaps they are still training for it. Hence, hair treatments are an equally relaxing experience for my part.

Cromboloni

Cromboloni is a fusion of a croissant and the bombolini doughnut. It went viral around the world through the power of TikTok. I love croissants but am not a fan of bombolini because of the stuffed cream.

Last Thursday, I took leave. I know, it was too early for a leave as we stepped into the new year. I applied for it because I needed to sort out my mess from the end of 2023. In the final weeks of 2023, the medical officers received news that we will have another Family Medicine specialist on board. So, naturally, some of us had to clear our rooms. That meant me and my colleague who shared one.

I cleared my desk. Took out the things I pinned onto my soft board. Took out my files and folders from the drawers. Everything. I did not have the mental stamina to sort it out straight after that week because I was going on an anniversary holiday and had been putting off the sorting process for a while. Hence, I did just that during my recent leave.

Before doing that, I needed a good breakfast. So, I headed to Richiamo Coffee at Ayer Keroh. I used to get the salted egg croissant for my husband here. He loves it. For this visit, I got myself a chicken lasagna, a rolled Danish pastry and iced chocolate. To my dismay, the coffee machine was broken. I was so disappointed but I didn’t want to wait for GIGI coffee to open at Mydin because it would take me another hour. I initially wanted to go to Kopi Mesin, another coffee house at Ayer Keroh but contrary to its opening time at 9am as mentioned on Instagram – they actually start at 0930am. Urghh.. why can’t these cafes open early? So I settled with Richiamo Coffee.

As I was staring at my meal, I realized that I had ordered a potential crombolini. It is after all rolled Danish pastry. Only the one I had did not have a filling and topping. But if I took it home and did all that on my own – I would actually have a cromboloni. I’ll even make it stand. I was amused at the thought and wondered if I started telling my friends about this – what would their take be. But let’s not do that and make Richiamo suffer. Let the cafe patrons figure it out themselves.

Pusat Sains Negara

Pusat Sains Negara, located in Malaysia, is a prominent national science centre that is a hub for scientific exploration and education. Spanning across a vast area, it offers visitors a range of interactive exhibits, engaging activities, and immersive displays that showcase various fields of science and technology. Pusat Sains Negara is designed to foster curiosity and promote scientific literacy among people of all ages. With its state-of-the-art facilities, it plays a crucial role in inspiring future generations to pursue careers in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM), contributing to Malaysia’s scientific advancement and development.

My early bird.

We went there on Christmas Day as early as 0830am because when we went there the day before – the parking space was already full at 12 noon. The entrance fee is cheap which explains why it is a great place for a family day out. Adult ticket is RM6 whereas children and senior citizen (>55 years old) tickets are RM3.

It is a very interactive place. Hence, I would advise visitors to bring their own hand wipes and sanitisers.
Simply because kids touch everything. I tried using one of those step-on sanitisers but they don’t work. The exhibits are cool to look out and there are various games that even adults could try. It is a huge place with plenty of potential.

This is me trying to solve the quiz
As an adult geek, I really loved the exhibits. I wished I could sit and just read it the whole day. We were pressed for time.
There were colouring activities, indoor playgrounds, an Xray demo station and plenty more

We spent at least 2 hours there. We would have spent the time longer if we paused at all the exhibits and absorbed every single piece of information into our minds. Kids got hungry after much activity. Ha ha.

Mini wall for climbing – just the right height for kids.