When I first came across the news of Cik Epal’s upcoming divorce from her ex-husband, I was taken aback. Cik Epal and Jofliam were often seen as the ultimate power couple in the blogging world. Cik Epal had already made her mark long before Instagram and TikTok became popular, standing out as one of the top bloggers of her era, back when blog-hopping was all the rage. As a reader, I’ve always associated the couple with their luxurious and somewhat open lifestyle. However, this just goes to show that, as outsiders, we can never truly know what goes on behind closed doors.

Earlier, in Fazura’s situation (another public figure), it gives off an impression of neglect, possibly due to her extroverted nature and independent outlook on life. It almost feels like her partner may have forgotten to shower her with the affection and care she deserves as the love of his life. Regarding the nafkah issue, I understand where she’s coming from. While her husband may have fulfilled the obligatory nafkah by providing shelter and food, she seems to long for more thoughtful gestures, like receiving pocket money. Although it’s not mandatory, any wife would surely appreciate the “princess treatment,” especially from a man who earns well through his movies and business ventures. I know I certainly did whenever I received the occasional, unexpected duit raya.

In Cik Epal’s case, I was appalled to learn that the situation involved an extramarital affair between her partner and a co-worker. However, another thought crossed my mind. The next woman in his life would have some big shoes to fill, especially if he still wanted to remain in the spotlight. Cik Epal has been building her brand since her youth, and no amount of fame on Instagram or TikTok could rival the loyal fanbase she cultivated through her blog. In fact, we, her readers, accepted her husband largely because he was Cik Epal’s husband—not because of his own social media presence. Even now, Cik Epal continues to thrive, bolstered by a network of peers within the industry.

When it comes to public figures like Fazura and Cik Epal, divorce often becomes a highly scrutinized affair, especially when children are involved. Beyond the emotional toll, the situation can get increasingly complicated as decisions about custody, co-parenting, and the children’s well-being come into play. The messiness isn’t just about dividing assets or managing public perception—it’s also about ensuring that the kids are shielded from unnecessary drama. For individuals like Fazura and Cik Epal, who have built strong personal brands, navigating these challenges under the public eye adds another layer of pressure. At the heart of it all, however, is the hope that both parents can rise above the differences for the sake of their children, ensuring their needs and emotional security come first.