A Christmas weekend in Cheras

As parents, we were very grateful for this long weekend. It’s a little breakaway in the two-week school holiday break. I consider this an opportunity to scoop the kids somewhere since we couldn’t really apply for leave during this time. Mr Husband initially wanted to go to Kuantan but with the rainy season – it can be quite a risk to go there as the place could be flooded. Cheras is only 2 hours away and we managed to squeeze in a quick visit to my father’s house at BSP.

PRESCOTT-ACE HOTEL

Mr Husband booked two Standard Twin rooms. So, there’s one for us girls and another one for the boys. This is a 3-star hotel with amenities like FREE WIFI, a mini fridge and a water dispenser in the hallway. Breakfast was included in our room rates and I think my husband paid for less than RM100/night. Of course, The Suite would cost more but even the standard room was comfortable enough.

The hotel is nestled within a very vibrant community with Aeon Mall just 11 minutes walk away. Better still, there is a metro station 2Km away. This makes travelling around KL better.

Check in is at 2pm. So, we had lunch at IOI City Mall first before going there. Parking is easy and there’s just plenty of place to eat around there. One of those places is Soru Station. We also went to Ikea Cheras for our meatballs and photo-taking in the mock rooms. On our final day of checking out, we visited Pusat Sains Negara.

SORU STATION

This is where we had our dinner the same day we checked in. They serve a mix of Malaysian and Western dishes. The meals are decent with appropriate portions and reasonable prices.

IKEA CHERAS

The layout has changed. There used to be long, communal tables lined up next to each other. Perhaps the management team has come to realize that Malaysians don’t share and prefer to hoard the whole table even if it’s just 4 people because the bags need a seat. So there are more 4 seated tables in sight with a few bigger ones for the larger party. We had the usual meatballs and mash. Mr Husband had the nasi lemak. Our drinks were refillable. It’s one of those RM2.50 per glass drink.

After our meal, we walked around Ikea enjoying the aesthetic looks of its showroom. Then, we were done for the day as our daughter needed her nap.

We went to Pusat Sains Negara the next day and that will be in another post.

Dream Diary: Bonda

Bonda has been known by locals of my dystopian world as someone who kidnaps children to be taken care of as her own. The kids captured were rarely returned and even if they were – strangely enough Bonda was never charged for kidnapping by the parents of whom the kids were taken from. It was never clear how some kids were returned and some remained missing but it became a parent’s nightmare whenever they knew that their kids were taken by Bonda. Because the chances of them coming back home is very low.

I was a single mom in this dreamland with two daughters ages 7 and 8. They were both really well-mannered, empathetic and bright children. I wasn’t sure what my line of work was but it seemed very busy and involved meeting many people from various backgrounds. There’d be moments of me talking to these various people but the matter of discussion was never made obvious in the dream. My line of work resulted in me missing a lot of PTA meetings, school holidays and time with my girls.

One day I was supposed to fetch my children from school. I was a bit late but I told them to stay within the school compound and just wait for me to come by. As usual, I would be reminding them to not follow any strangers. Just as I arrived at the school gate and waited in the car queue to the main entrance, I could see from far of how my girls climbed into another person’s car which does not have any form of resemblance to mine. I panicked, got out of my car and started shouting for them to stop but the door slammed shut and went off. I hurried over to the security guard and asked him, ‘Whose car was that?”why did you let my daughters go in the car? it is not my car!!’

The security guard turned around. He had sunglasses on – he just had a cataract operation and replied, “Bonda took them, there was nothing I could do”

I had another gush of panic and anger. I ran back to my car and sped up after Bonda’s car. It was one of those situations where I could see the car but I couldn’t catch up to it no matter how fast I was driving. In the meantime, I was calling 999, informing them of my situation and describing the car’s number plate hoping for a roadblock somewhere along the road. Despite having my eyes on the car at all times, the car suddenly disappeared. Without a trace. As though it could vanish in thin air.

I wasn’t willing to give up and I had some two other detectives approaching me for a statement and tracking down Bonda with the cliche’d visits to nearby establishments asking ‘Have you seen these children? do you recognize this car?’ These enquiries were always met with a NO and my level of disappointment and heart aches rose every time. Although they told me to stay at home and wait for news from them, I still tagged along with their investigation by driving my own car. It hurts to cry for days not knowing what happened to my girls if they are alive and taken by Bonda or other ill-meaning kidnappers. Nothing showed up on any CCTV on the streets which was puzzling to me.

It was during one of those door-to-door enquiries that I suddenly saw the car again. I immediately told the detectives and we followed it closely from behind in our respective cars. However, the detective’s cars suddenly had problems mid-journey. They just stopped in the middle of the road. This meant that I had to continue ahead, maintaining a distance but still tailgating the vehicle. The car was driving at a normal speed but the journey was taking ages. It felt like I was hours in the car and the day soon turned dark. We finally reached an area where I could see a huge mansion within a gated brick wall. It looks majestic, almost like an ancient building from afar. I parked my car by the side of the road and tried to send my location to the detectives but the line was not good.

Somehow I was suddenly in a room and I found my daughters. They were in a pink of health and were asking me if I was there to visit them. In a hushed voice, I told them I was there to take them away from the place to come back home. They asked me back,”Why?”. The question caught me by surprise as I wondered ‘Why would they even want to stay here? This is not their home’.

Suddenly the door creaked open. I quickly hid behind the door. It was the mysterious Bonda.

Her figure and voice looked and sounded so familiar from behind. I knew I recognized this person. True enough, when she turned around to see me behind the door – it was someone I knew. A person I knew in real life, which was shocking. She was my specialist at my clinic. In Dreamland, she is also playing the role of a specialist at our local health facility. Everyone knew her as a kind doctor. This was a small neighbourhood, she knew that my daughters were missing but why didn’t she say anything? Did she want to keep the girls to herself forever? Bonda must have sensed my presence. She turned around, saw me and with a relaxed tone and no ounce of guilt asked “Are you here for your children?”. My eyes were glazed and I muttered a soft “yes”.

She led me to the corridor with the girls holding my hand side by side. We walked past a lot of rooms with children inside, giggling or laughing. Then we passed an area where I could see kids of various ages doing some sort of activity like reading, playing the piano, swimming etc. I thought I saw a familiar face among the kids and wondered if it was the same child I saw on a poster months ago that said MISSING. Bonda showed me the door and closed it behind me without saying a word. Not even a goodbye to the girls or even an explanation of why she did what she did.

I don’t really remember the aftermath of the situation but upon waking up, I am still thinking of what happened.

Wrapping up my Youtube channel early for 2023

We are 2 weeks shy into 2024 but I have decided to upload my last Youtube video for the year. It is about my trip to MIRI for the wedding in early this month. I also added a snippet of my planning for 2024 in my MUJI PLANNER.

Now that my formal exams for psychology are done – I thought I should delve into ideas for my final year project. Once that is sorted, I could carry out the project and just like that, my degree is over. Then, if there is rezeki of time and money, I could apply for the Master’s programme at UKM as a part-time learner.

Here is my final video for 2023. I produced only 14 videos this year instead of over 20 in 2022. Still, I admire my persistence (lol) in keeping up with the video editing despite the time and commitment constraints I had this year. Good job Minci for the little battles you won.

Here it is guys, MIRI in video.

Muji Planner

I am making a mental note that if I want to buy my favourite Muji planner – I should get it early. The one with the black cover is already sold out and I thought I was getting the one with the same layout, but it turned out it was wrong. I did not read the description properly.

I consoled myself that it was ok to get a red one but I had it all wrong. Wrong size. Wrong layout.

My favourite layout is the one with an all-year overview page, and the monthly and weekly pages in vertical view. I ended up with the horizontal view. Urgh. Will have to make do with it – better than nothing.

Looking forward to a fruitful and exciting 2024. My daughter will be entering formal schooling and my son is still waiting for placement for his secondary schooling. It is an anxiety-inducing moment for the parents as well. We are also not going on holiday as much as we want to because I have to compete with my colleagues for the quota per day.

For me personally, it will be my last year in the Psychology programme. I am already behind in 1 semester as I have not been able to take up as many subjects as I intend to. It is still a worthwhile experience and I am hoping to get my Final Year Project completed as soon as possible. I have yet to find a supervisor. As for my portfolios at work, I have already drafted out the itinerary of our programmes for 2024. I just need to clarify certain targets and goals.

Imagine the power of Dajal if you believe the Z now

One would think that the Americans are the saviour of the world. That is how it is played out in espionage movies or the Marvels. A long time ago, I asked my husband, “What did the Russians feel when they are always the bad guys in movies?” He said, they just laughed. He was a student in Volgograd at the time. Well.. thank god the Russians have humour in them. If Malaysians were painted as villains in any movie, you’d have Bawang Rangers crashing down social media in one day. The same goes for the Indonesians.

Perhaps the ultimate villain is the United States after all. They knew they had the power of Veto and were comfortable using it to overrule the call for a ceasefire in Gaza. Even the ‘villains’ from Russia or North Korea, if we are to base their characters on movies, know that there is a limit to atrocities especially when they are waged against children. The United States doesn’t.

There was a video circulating about how a Zionist preacher was saying that the kids must be killed. It is a now-or-never situation because 10 years later, the kids will grow up and come after them. This is the same thing that Firaun did in his time, and it was a story told in the Quran when he ordered that all the babies in his kingdom be killed because there was a premonition that one day a saviour would be born from a particular tribe. With Allah’s will, one baby survived and was even raised in Firaun’s own home. He was Musa (Moses).

This story is a consolation to the souls that cry for the lives of the children who were massacred in this Palestinian war. No matter how great a human being thinks he is, there is always Allah, a divine entity that will unleash His power when the time comes. Allah could instruct mosquitos to kill the Namrud army – showcasing there is no limit to what divine intervention can do and that UN is useless.