Waiting …

This mode is called stingy. Or kedekut we call it in Malay. If I put it nicely it’s more like delayed gratification. I have yet to spend a dime for my 2016 planner. Still waiting for the official ministry planner to be handed out by the boss. Skali tak dapat.. ha ha ha.. I want to see how ugly functional it is before I decide on getting my own planner. I mean I loved my previous one, I don’t understand why they should gather bad taste in a year.

In the meantime, I’ll just doodle the remaining pages of my 2015 with resolutions. And wait for my parcel from Paperdorable. I just bought one of its Blind Faith Silver Bundle packages. Can’t wait to see what is inside.

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Often the advice is to limit your goals and to be precise. Make an outline. A deadline. You’re not doing a grocery list ‘experts say’. I don’t see any right or wrong way of doing it. You want to kick off a new habit everyday? Go ahead – call it ‘a new habit everyday resolution’. You want to produce an album in a year? Go ahead – sing your song.

I have not made weight loss a priority in 2016. Who knows I might unintentionally lose some when I don’t think too much about it. I wish..pffft. Plus – I have quite a lot on my little plate for next year. Things relating to personal growth, family ties, money, writing and feelings.

They say successful people wear the same outfit everyday. I think I shall start with that. It’s going to be Wednesday everyday people.

With a tinge of colour for the headscarf. HIhihihi..

Parcel ‘kasih sayang’ for the girls …

The December/New Year edition of my personalised parcel ‘kasih sayang’.

EE sends his love to all his aunties..

.. because in the midst of being a wife and a mother, we sometimes forget that we are women of our own. We have our own ambitions, desires and needs. That sometimes you just need your girl-friends to tell you to hold on, or go for it, or hey.. whatever it is, I will always be here for you and your kids should they need me when you’re not around …

This activity of sending parcels to my girl-friends have been around since I was in medical school. I don’t do it that often – just at times if say, I saw a beautiful scarf or book and cookies. It’s my way of sharing my joy or the recent happenings in my life.

Of course, everytime I go to the post office the people at the counter would question me about Poslaju and what’s in the package – they keep thinking that I have an online business.  For God’s sake, I just want to send this beautiful package to my good friends. Have you guys forgotten how nice it is to receive goodies from a friend?

In my recent pack I have given them a shawl, a pair of hand socks from Kulsocs, some lollipops, a du’a card, an organ donation information card (lol), bookmark, my syok sendiri blog card and of course lots of invisible love and kisses floating in the envelope.

Now that I know the minimum postage to send a parcel via snail mail is MYR 4.00 I am considering making a New Year Surprise Package at say a flat price of RM15? Ha ha.. I wonder if anybody would be interested – especially from the local planner addicts society. Hmmm.. just let me sit on the idea for a minute.